An update: Am pleased to say that test with a triad of 3 PCs - mine / my son (within WLAN) / his friend (outside our Wlan) worked perfectly - immediately and quickly. My son generated a secret - which I and his friend entered to sync our respective folders - No other information other than the secret was required. Noone needed to enter my son's IP address. Firewalls and Port handling was transparent. Thanks for the help. I am (indeed we are) impressed with Bit Torrent Sync.